justathought

My boyfriend and I went to look at engagement rings on New Year’s Day.  It came as a total surprise to me.  We went for lunch and made a quick pit stop at a Kay Jeweler’s nearby the restaurant.  As we viewed the rings, I did not feel the sense of awe that I thought I should feel at such a special time?  Why you ask?  Most likely it is because my soul-mate has been driving me up the wall for the weeks preceding the “big event”. 

To begin with, we did not do anything for the New Year’s Eve holiday.  He planned to hang out with his male friends and I spent the time moving into our new place.  He had no thought on how important it might be for me that we bring in the new year together doing something . . .or nothing at all . . . just being together.  After viewing the rings, I had to ask him whether or not he truly believed we were at the point of buying rings.  He thought yes, I thought we should be thinking about it a little more closely.  I love him I do!  He is my best friend, but sometimes I just don’t like his ways.  So when do you know it is time to say goodbye?  When do you know that you should move on?

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